Kamusta, Ka-Optimalliving!
Important disclaimer: This article is for general informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. If you suspect you have kidney stones or any related condition, please consult a licensed healthcare professional for proper diagnosis and treatment.
I heard the “clink” against the porcelain before I actually felt relieved.
That small sound meant a kidney stone had just passed out of my body, naturally, after months of pain. I took a photo of that stone and posted it on Facebook with the caption “Ang Tunay na Bato.” But that single moment on April 28, 2013 wasn’t the whole story. It was the end of a three-year battle with kidney stones that started back in 2010, when I was running our small computer rental shop alone in Cavite.
If you’re dealing with kidney stones right now, or you just want to make sure you never have to, I want to walk you through exactly what happened to me. Not the sanitized version. The real one, “noodle trap” and all.
Introduction to Kidney Stones: How My “Noodle Trap” Started It All
Back in July 2010, I was a one-man band running our small computer rental shop. Computer maintenance, customer service, troubleshooting, everything ran through me and only me. There was no such thing as a lunch break that actually happened on schedule, and there was definitely no such thing as stepping away from the counter for very long.
My diet during that period was instant cup noodles, almost every single day. My hydration habit was worse. I only drank water right after meals, even though the water container was sitting right behind my chair the entire time. I wasn’t avoiding water on purpose. I was just so buried in work that I genuinely forgot my body needed it throughout the day, not just at mealtimes.
Then there was the holding it in. Customers would be lined up for printing, and I would tell myself “sandali lang, matatapos rin ito,” and then thirty minutes would pass, then an hour, and I still hadn’t used the bathroom. Looking back now, I can see clearly how this everyday routine, the instant noodles, the meal-only water intake, the held-in urine, was quietly setting up the perfect storm inside my body. At the time, I had no idea kidney stones were even a possibility for someone my age. I just thought I was tired.
Round 1 (2011-2012): The Hospitalization
The lifestyle caught up with me faster than I expected. By 2011, I started experiencing symptoms that honestly confused me at first. There was a strange sensation like I needed to poop, except nothing would come out no matter how long I tried. My urinary flow felt blocked and painful. My body felt weak and exhausted in a way that rest alone didn’t fix.
Then the real warning sign arrived: a sharp, focused ache in my lower right back. Not a general body pain, but something localized and intense. Vomiting followed shortly after, even though I had barely eaten anything that day.
My wife came to the shop and saw the state I was in. She didn’t ask questions; she just insisted we go to the hospital immediately. I remember lying in the ER, curled up in pain, and noticing a poster on the wall of a man clutching his lower right back in exactly the same position I was in. That poster was about kidney stones. It was the first time I connected the dots on what was actually happening inside me.
The doctor prescribed medication, and combined with a heavy increase in water intake, the stones eventually broke down and passed. I was discharged the next day and, honestly, I thought I was in the clear. I went right back to the shop, back to the same work routine, fewer noodles, but the same forgetting-to-drink-water pattern. I didn’t understand yet that the hospital had only patched the immediate problem. It hadn’t fixed the root cause, which was the way I was living day to day.
Round 2 (February – April 2013): The Natural Remedy
After I sold the computer shop in late 2012, I thought that chapter of my life, stress, long hours, poor habits, was finally behind me. But the kidney stone symptoms returned with a vengeance just a couple of months later.
For two full months, from February through April 2013, I dealt with painful urination and something that scared me more than anything before it: blood in my urine. This time, I approached it differently. Instead of only relying on medication, my wife suggested we try Banaba tea, a remedy she’d heard about from her family. Around the same time, a local vendor would pass by our street selling fresh Buko juice, and I started drinking it regularly whenever he came around.
I kept this up for weeks, treating hydration and these natural remedies as a daily discipline rather than an occasional afterthought. Then, on April 28, 2013, I finally heard that “clink” against the porcelain. The stone had passed on its own. I was so relieved that I photographed it and shared it on Facebook. That stone represented three years of struggle with kidney stones, and passing it naturally felt like finally escaping a trap I didn’t even know I had walked into back in 2010.
Prevalence and Risk Factors: You’re Not Alone in This
If you’re currently dealing with kidney stones, I want you to know something important. This is far more common than most people realize. Kidney stones affect roughly 1 to 15 percent of the world’s population, and this rate varies significantly by region, with Asia sitting on the lower end and North America seeing rates as high as 7 to 15 percent.
Men are affected more often than women, and the risk climbs noticeably between the ages of 20 and 40, which happens to be almost exactly the age range I was in during my own three-year battle. Kidney stones are also more prevalent in men, at around 12 percent, compared to roughly 6 percent in women, and this gap holds true across multiple population studies.
Family history plays a bigger role than most people expect too. If a close relative has had kidney stones, your own risk goes up considerably, since there’s a genetic component to how your body handles calcium, oxalate, and fluid balance. But the factor that mattered most in my own story, and the one that’s most within your control, was dehydration. I want to spend real time on that next, because it’s the single biggest lever you have.
The Role of Dehydration in Kidney Stone Formation
Dehydration isn’t just about feeling thirsty. It’s about what happens inside your kidneys when your fluid intake consistently falls short of what your body loses throughout the day.
A low urine volume caused by insufficient fluid intake is one of the most crucial risk factors for kidney stone formation, and this can be triggered by heat exposure, physical exertion, or simply not drinking enough throughout the day. That description matches my 2010 routine almost perfectly. Working in a hot computer shop, sweating throughout the day, and only drinking water after meals meant my urine was concentrated far more often than it should have been.
Occupation matters more than people think, too. Certain professions carry a notably elevated risk for stone formation, particularly jobs with limited or inconsistent access to water and bathroom breaks, such as healthcare workers in operating rooms, professional drivers, and teachers. I’d add small business owners and shopkeepers to that list, because that was exactly my situation. When you’re the only person running the counter, “I’ll drink water later” becomes a dangerous habit repeated day after day.
Here’s the mechanism in simple terms. When you don’t drink enough fluids, your kidneys have to work with less water to filter out waste. This makes your urine more concentrated, which means minerals like calcium and oxalate have less room to stay dissolved. Over time, that concentration is exactly what creates the conditions for a stone to start forming.
The Biology of Kidney Stones: How a Tiny Crystal Becomes a Painful Stone
Understanding what’s actually happening inside your body helped me take prevention seriously, so let me walk you through it in plain language.
Kidney stones form through a process that starts with something called supersaturation. This happens when your urine contains more dissolved minerals, like calcium and oxalate, than the fluid can actually hold in solution. The pathophysiology of stone formation begins with crystal formation in supersaturated urine, which then adheres to the lining of the urinary tract, and repair of that lining after injury can actually increase the chances of further crystal buildup.
Once supersaturation happens, tiny crystals begin to form through a stage called nucleation. Left alone, these microscopic crystals wouldn’t cause much trouble. But when your urine stays concentrated over and over again, day after day of insufficient hydration, those crystals don’t just form, they grow. This is the precipitation and aggregation stage, where individual crystals stick together and build into something large enough to actually block urine flow or scrape against the walls of your urinary tract, which is where that unmistakable pain comes from.
The full mechanism of stone formation involves supersaturation, crystal nucleation, precipitation, crystal growth, and aggregation into a stone large enough to cause symptoms. Knowing this sequence made something click for me. Every single stage of that process depends heavily on how concentrated your urine is. And urine concentration comes down almost entirely to one thing: how much fluid you’re actually drinking, consistently, throughout your day.
Key Medical Facts and Myths About Kidney Stones
There’s a lot of misinformation floating around about kidney stones, so let me clear up a few things using what the research actually shows.
Myth: All kidney stones are the same. Fact: Calcium stones are the most common type, making up roughly 70 to 80 percent of all kidney stones, though uric acid, struvite, and mixed stones also occur. This is why doctors often ask about your specific stone composition after you pass one, since prevention strategies can differ slightly depending on the type.
Myth: Kidney stones only happen to older people with poor diets. Fact: I was in my early 30s during my first hospitalization, and plenty of younger, otherwise healthy adults develop stones, especially those working physically demanding jobs, night shifts, or hot environments with inconsistent access to water.
Myth: Once you pass a stone, you’re in the clear forever. Fact: This was the most painful lesson of my own experience. I thought my 2011 hospitalization was the end of it, but the stones came back in 2013 because I hadn’t addressed the underlying dehydration pattern. Recurrence is genuinely common if the root habits don’t change.
Myth: You’ll always feel obvious symptoms right away. Fact: Chronic dehydration, meaning ongoing exposure to heat or consistently poor drinking habits, has been identified as the main cause behind roughly 19 percent of kidney stone cases studied, and this kind of slow-building dehydration often doesn’t feel dramatic day to day. That’s exactly what made my own case sneak up on me. No single day felt like an emergency. It was the accumulation over months that eventually became one.
Banaba (Lagerstroemia speciosa) as a Natural Remedy
Banaba was central to how I finally broke the cycle in 2013, so I want to explain what’s actually behind this traditional Filipino remedy, beyond just “my wife suggested it.”
Banaba, known scientifically as Lagerstroemia speciosa, is a tree that’s widely distributed across the Philippines and has been used in Filipino folk medicine for generations. The leaves of the plant have traditionally been used to support kidney and bladder health, in addition to their well-known role in managing blood sugar, and the plant also carries diuretic properties.
The active compound most researchers focus on is corosolic acid, a triterpenoid found in high concentrations in Banaba leaves. While most of the research on corosolic acid centers on its blood sugar effects, there’s also laboratory evidence specifically related to stone prevention. Laboratory research on Banaba leaf extract found that it significantly inhibited the formation, nucleation, growth, and aggregation of calcium oxalate crystals, the same type of crystal responsible for the majority of kidney stones.
Researchers believe this antiurolithiatic effect (meaning it works against stone formation) comes from the plant’s flavonoid, polyphenolic, saponin, and tannin content working together, rather than corosolic acid alone. I want to be upfront here: this evidence comes from laboratory and in-vitro studies, not large-scale human clinical trials specifically for kidney stones. It’s not a replacement for medical treatment if you currently have a stone that needs medical attention. But as a traditional, low-cost addition to a hydration-focused routine, it’s part of what worked for me, alongside the diuretic effect that simply encouraged me to drink more fluid throughout the day.
Prevention and Hydration Strategies That Actually Work
If there’s one lesson from my entire three-year battle with kidney stones, it’s this: prevention is almost entirely about consistent hydration, not occasional effort.
Health authorities generally recommend drinking two to three quarts of fluid daily, roughly eight to twelve cups, to produce enough urine volume to keep minerals properly diluted. Some specialists recommend going even higher if you’ve had stones before. Doctors treating recurrent stone formers often aim for patients to produce two and a half to three liters of urine per day, which usually means drinking more than three liters of fluid daily once you account for water lost through sweat and digestion.
Here’s how I actually apply this now, years after my last stone:
Drink proactively, not reactively. My biggest mistake in 2010 was only drinking water after meals. Now I keep a water bottle within arm’s reach at all times, the same way that water container was sitting behind me back then, except now I actually use it throughout the day, not just at mealtimes.
Eat water-rich foods. Fruits like watermelon, buko, and cucumber contribute meaningfully to your daily fluid intake, on top of what you drink directly. This matters especially on hot, humid days in the Philippines when you’re sweating more than you realize.
Watch your sugar and caffeine intake. Sugary drinks and excessive caffeine can work against your hydration goals and, in some cases, contribute to stone-forming conditions. This doesn’t mean cutting out coffee entirely, but balancing it with extra water.
Don’t hold it in. This one is personal for me. If you’re in a job where bathroom breaks feel impossible to schedule, like I was, please find a way to build them in anyway. Holding urine for extended periods isn’t just uncomfortable, it contributes to the exact conditions that let stones form and grow.
Track your urine color as a simple check. Pale yellow generally means you’re well-hydrated. Dark yellow is your body’s signal that you need more fluid, and it’s one of the easiest, free indicators available to you every single day.
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Frequently Asked Questions about Kidney Stones
Q1: What are the earliest warning signs of kidney stones? In my own experience, the earliest signs were subtle: a strange sensation of needing to use the bathroom without relief, general fatigue, and a weak feeling that didn’t improve with rest. The more obvious sign, a sharp ache in the lower back on one side, usually comes later as the stone grows or starts moving.
Q2: Can kidney stones really pass on their own without surgery? Yes, smaller kidney stones often can pass naturally with enough fluid intake, sometimes supported by prescribed medication to help relax the urinary tract. This was exactly my experience in 2013. However, larger stones may require medical procedures, so any suspected kidney stone should still be evaluated by a doctor.
Q3: Is Banaba tea a proven cure for kidney stones? Banaba has documented traditional use and some laboratory evidence supporting its role against calcium oxalate crystal formation, plus a diuretic effect that supports hydration. It is not a clinically proven cure and should not replace medical treatment, especially if you’re currently experiencing a stone-related emergency. I used it as part of a broader hydration-focused approach, not as a standalone solution.
Q4: How much water should I actually drink to prevent kidney stones? Most guidance points toward roughly eight to twelve cups of fluid daily for general prevention, with some doctors recommending even more for people who’ve already had a stone. Your exact needs depend on your climate, activity level, and personal risk factors, so it’s worth discussing specifics with your doctor.
Q5: Are kidney stones likely to come back after you pass one? Unfortunately, yes, recurrence is common, and I learned this the hard way when my stones returned in 2013 after I assumed I was fully in the clear following my 2011 hospitalization. The habits you build after your first stone, especially consistent hydration, matter just as much as the initial treatment.
Conclusion: My Escape from the Trap, and Yours
Looking back at my three-year battle with kidney stones, from that painful ER visit in 2011 to the “clink” I finally heard in April 2013, the lesson is almost embarrassingly simple. It was never about finding some rare cure. It was about respecting something as basic as drinking enough water, consistently, every single day.
If you’re in the middle of your own struggle with kidney stones right now, please don’t wait as long as I did to take it seriously. And if you haven’t dealt with this yet, consider this your warning poster on the ER wall, the one I happened to notice at exactly the right moment. Build the habit of proactive hydration now, before your body forces the lesson on you the hard way.
Kidney stones taught me that real wellness isn’t glamorous. It’s a water bottle within reach. It’s not holding it in when your body tells you to go. It’s small, boring, consistent choices that protect you from something genuinely painful. Ingat lagi, Ka-Optimalliving. 💪
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References
- Prevalence of kidney stone disease, Kharameh cohort study – PMC: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9764470/
- Prevalence and risk factors of renal stones, Bisha population – PMC: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10328147/
- Nutrition and Kidney Stone Disease – PMC: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8229448/
- Water intake and Kidney Stones – Hydration for Health: https://www.hydrationforhealth.com/en/hydration-science/hydration-lab/water-intake-and-kidney-stones/
- Evaluation of In vitro Antiurolithiatic Potential of Lagerstroemia speciosa: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/362135016_Evaluation_of_In_vitro_Antiurolithiatic_Potential_of_Ethanolic_Leaf_Extract_of_Langerstromia_specoisa
- A Systematic Review on Banaba – IJRAR: https://www.ijrar.org/papers/IJRAR2001794.pdf
- Kidney Stone Diet Plan and Prevention – National Kidney Foundation: https://www.kidney.org/kidney-topics/kidney-stone-diet-plan-and-prevention
- Kidney Stone Prevention: How Much Water Should You Drink – Houston Methodist: https://www.houstonmethodist.org/blog/articles/2023/jan/kidney-stone-prevention-how-much-water-should-you-drink/
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About Thom Sagun
“I’m a Freelance VA, Computer Technician, father, and fur-parent. After 15 years of navigating the ‘Vampire Shift’ for global clients on different platforms where I get jobs to support my family, I founded Optimal Living PH. My mission is to document the journey of reclaiming my health while working on my own terms practically and to share it with everyone. I’m a researcher and wellness student, passionate about helping fellow independent workers find a better rhythm. Let’s fix the room, fix the rhythm, and build a better life together—it’s never too late to start, Ka-Optimalliving!”


